Yikes, wires crossing. Of course you have needs, we all do (I slept with H many times after he left)!!! I was kind of playing and while I think I may be a little too hard on you, I think you're also a tad traumatized...
You don't need to apologize for communicating honestly here.
I think you do need to boost your confidence and feel more self-assured. You don't want to be like that with wife..."Oops, oops, sorry I said that" kind of thing.
I am not teasing you. You seem like a really thoughtful and nice guy (good things!!!!) but you really need to get your nuts back too (as some of the boys here like to say). It is a fine line but you can do it.
Not sure about the "fine line" but his nuts are in his wife's purse, Tristan if you get a chance, ask your wife to open her purse, put your hand in there, fish around for a bit, you'll find your "pair" in there, take them out, put them back where they belong ;-)
Obviously a bit of joke to throw off the doom & gloom of this current situation. Reclaim your identity, your individuality and what it means for Tristan to feel masculine again.
