back after 10 weeks of recovery and need some help

[Doingitright]

Steady. Thanks again. Yep it is her problem. It just effects the kids due to her lack of motivation.

So here is the not so detached guy venting...w went out and bought new sexy underwear when shopping for the kids back to school stuff. Pulls them out and puts them in the middle of the floor and goes about her business. That used to be our "thing". I won't go into the details. She just bought $100 worth about a month ago when we "were together".

Other thing was I found a new phone charger hidden under the mattress. It go to her virgin mobile phone she said she donated to the womens home. This was 2 months ago. So I believe that there is OM. I am so pissed right now. I found it two days ago and didn't say a word. That is the new me. Old me would have ripped into her and confronted her on it immediately.

I have IC today. It is starting to seem useless going. C doesn't have much to say or help me. I don't have much to say and try not to monopolize me time with W stuff that C or I can't control. Talk to you later litterally got to run.