Don`t want to rehash my whole thread here. Ask questions if you need to to save your reading but briefly
We`ve had a lousy last two years. I`ve started LRT end April. H just got madder the more I detached doing crazy things to draw me in.
He got angry/sad/feigned madness but I stayed calm(apart from a couple of hiccups)
Now he`s started the ball rolling towards separation by making an appt for mediators.
I have told him its his decision-he wanted to pretend it was mutual.
I have yet to confrim with the mediators that I will be available to go. Appointment will probably be in 14 weeks.
He is trying to spend more quality time with the kids.
He has a notion of getting a house close by and having them 50% of the time.I didn`t discuss that though.
I look good, am having fun(he told me it would be better if I looked upset) have made the changes he`s asked for though I haven`t pointed them out. I`m trying to be the change. H has told me that I look fantastic and that its ok for me I`ll be able to get on with my life(when we separate).
I`m going to therapy for the past 9 weeks. Thats been helpful too.
