D is fine-I think her problemis activity related. Had a physio friend look at it and all`s well for now.

I`m interested in all the similarities between your H and mine Cat-background included. Actually upbringing a huge part of our current problems Cat.

I`m also interested in my role in things. How I contributed to the problem. What I can change.

Right now Im dealing with my need to control. It`s stronger than I thought. I`ve nightmares again and now I know that`s because H has taken the lead and is proceeding down the road of separation.

So, of course, my next post will be about what else can I do to stop this?!

He took the younger two fishing yesterday evening. I`ve no problem with that. Just that it was D`s first time ever to go fishing and DS`s second!

Fraid it makes me angry to see the start of the kids being pawns things in separation.

Oh, and he`s taking DS golfing today. Second time they went golfing this summer even DS goes most days. Oh, and you can guess who does 99% of the taxiing for that...

Er, I think I`m angry.

Now, that`s not detached is it?!