MB, the minute you start thinking about "spying" you just have to follow thru... At least that's how I am. When back in Jan H started loosing his...whatever it was, my gut feeling was to go ahead and do something. I did it on an impulse. Bought a keylogger and thought if there is something going on, eventually I will know. 8 months later... I knew more things that I ever imagined (btw, what really hurt was the past, right now he was "trying" to cut off with her but...).
Anyway, all the men I know kept telling me that if a man doesnt need sex for so long, something is wrong. I refused to accept that because stxH to me, was more like a woman in sex, it was never a physical need for him, it was emotional connection. Of course that says alot about how close he felt with OW since they were doing it 4-5 times a day... ( ).
Anyway, if you have doubts, check things out. You may be wrong. And you will feel stupid later. But if you are right, you will feel even more stupid for not doing it sooner. K
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