Snodderly said it better than I could. I will use fewer words. It's time to let him go. Protect yourself, and your kids. File. If lightning strikes, let him work his way back. But it's not going to happen anytime soon, I don't think it ever will. You've done everything you could. You can be happy with the person you see when you look in the mirror. I am happy to know someone like that.
Treese, you are a great woman, a great mother. It's time to take care of yourself. HUGS!
