Why is it so hard to fully detach? I have done decent, but today she is sick, and I have always been there for her when she has been in this place. I want to call just to see how she is doing, but I know I shouldn't. I know she would appreciate it, but at the same time, I feel that would be giving into her needs and adding to the cake eating. She is still trying to get my fulfillment of her needs, and I have been doing a decent job at staying fairly distant. I hate this point. FML Shock
