Sweetie, listen, that stuff is hard to hear, I know. But, the rewriting of history is what they do.
That's why detaching is so important. And thats why not putting a timeline on this is even more important. It all unfolds in its own time.
Look, this dbing is for us. Its a way for us to find our balance, find our way. Its an incredible journey of self discovery and a chance to become the person we are meant to be.
Find out what you want to do for you. Dont just go through the motions of GAL. Figure out some things you always wanted to do and do them.
No more relationship talks, write it down when it starts to build up. Stop looking from signs from her, those kinds of expectations will throw you.
So, come on now. Do what needs to be done. No expectations, no relationship talks. Find some things that make you happy. Make memories with your kids. Stop looking at timelines.
You need to get your footing, find your center and summon the strength I know is in there and start your journey.
