Hi Laughing,
I don't really know what to say. Your xh is a peice of work. You are a very strong woman but I know the situation with your d must be difficult. I am sure she will miss you and want to be home before long. Just give her time. It must be so confusing for children of any age especially when one parent is so crazy.

I am sure that your story will have a happy ending. Your children will be home with you and you will all heal, move on and thrive. I just pray that it is sooner rather than later.