I wouldn't say I have "nicer" children. I have read what your H has done to them over the past couple of years and he has made it much worse on them (and you) than my xw has done to me.
I am considering not saying anything at this time and continue asking them over to visit. If it goes on too long, I will address it again.
Night!
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God