Thanks everybody. I have been going back and forth between "should I, shouldn't I?" all day...I can see both perspectives! I spoke with my lawyer today to relieve my mind and he said try not to worry until he can look at the document H's lawyer writes up. Then he will let me know what if anything I have to lose or gain financially. Once this is settled, hopefully H won't feel so vulnerable and scared and might be willing to sit and talk to me. If not, I'm headed toward D anyhow. Ugh.
