wow. that's crazy. What a price to pay for some sloppy decisions. I hope you dont' mind, I'm enjoying his misery also. You're going to be sooo much better off wo him. And s4h, that's exactly it. It will all be someone else's fault. Although, I think in some cases, time brings a deeper understanding and some remorse. And if no thoughtful insight occurs, then they are doomed to repeat the same mistakes in every relationship because they are carrying their fundemental problems into them. I'm going to go look for you in the newspaper. That's pretty funny.