Why do you think that you can act toward me, a virtual stranger, in an empathetic manner, but you have a difficult time giving the same type of empathetic treatment to the one you claim to love above all others?
It is not a trick question. You would do me a great honor in thinking about it, and replying in a thoughtful manner.
Take the weekend to mull it over.
Write me on Monday (sooner if you wish) with your answer.