Email from L finally. He said that at the hearing "the judge said to have the case set as an "A" case, meaning we either go to trial or present an agreement for approval".

And, "if we reach an agreement sooner, we can put that on the record."

Sooner than what? A record for what? Guess I have lots of questions to send tomorrow.

He also says that H's L and he agreed that the four of us should meet and try to work out a settlement.

Well, that will be interesting. It seems we're starting all over again now.

Wonder what it was like in paradise last night when it turned out that married boyfriend didn't get that August 24 D after all.


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10