"Mad, furious, angry... He responds with anger too. How the hell could he lie for 3 years..."
K, I'm scrambling to catch up with you. But I've been where you are are further. I happen to still believe that these WAs, cheaters and adulterers need to be paraded naked thru' the streets with a big A on their foreheads and then put in jail for life with the key thrown away just like in primitive times.
Instead the modern "legal system" rewards them with custody of the kids and $$$. Of course I do not want to be the one handing out punishment - I want some higher power like the state or God to punish these people. That's the only way this non-sense would be a little less prevalent. Sorry I'm not as graceful as Kerry and John in this regard and I don't mind if anyone disagrees with me.
So there, I'm still with you. Except I want you to rise above it and I know you will but its a struggle indeed and I'm still struggling with it. My kids start school this week - another scramble.