Treese, I'm sorry that you are having to deal w/this....but, you have been at this for quite some time and should know that you cannot expect him to be honest w/you about anything. Look at the bonus situation...not telling you about that. I would also suspect that he knew about the scripts as well....
Girl friend, time you toughen up, pull yourself up by your bootstraps and make some firm decisions as to what you want to do here. The pain and suffering will lessen...but only when you are ready to move forward...DO NOT EXPECT HIM TO DO THE HONORABLE THING! He's incapable of doing anything right at this time...do not expect him to be honest w/you and above all else....watch your finances and bank statements closely.
Time for you to sit down and make a list of what you need to do to move forward. You are the only adult right now in the mix, therefore, you have to be the one to make the sound decisions for you and your family. He's not going to be of any use to you and your family for a long time, if ever.
