I'm probably going to still try and teach her a lesson. I will tell her to pay me 200 next week and the rest the following pay check. I can't let it sly right? Then she will still owe me 165 on top of the rest. I mean if I keep letting her sly she will take advantage of me is how I see it. I love her but this is how she wants it.

Yes that is what I was trying to explain to her about finances during our dinner date. that those bills are going to go on top of her other bills. That she is going to have to budget and spend wisely.

We are sperated and not divorced yet. And whatever my kids need I will get it for them no problem.


Me:27
W:24
S:2
D:9 months
M:3 years
Together for 8 years
Bombed : 6/11/09
Moved out: 6/27/09
Found out about her affair 9/7/09
(she started her's at 6/25/09)
Begged n plead 7/25/09
started DB 8/17/09