Or is it more of a "since you were unreachable you missed your chance at precious time with me..."? He does tend to say it after the fact. "I was gonna see if..."
Ho-ho! Naaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh -- that ain't "you missed your chance." That was "I want a chance."
Let caution be your by-word, friend. Been, done, got the t-shirt.