Hello Trustingfaith,

I have read your postings and I am in the same situation as you. My husband and I are separated but living under the same roof. I am trying to detach and I am finding hard when I have to see him almost everyday. I usually go to my room and close the door. We have been separated almost two months. I think he is going through a MLC. We have a great deal of debt and he lost his mom so the signs seem to point all in that direction. I recently read DB and started the plan and he has softened up a bit but he still says he's done. My days are getting harder instead of better. We don't have any kids so were staying under the same roof because financialy we can't make it. He had another W but he claims he no longer does. How do you do it? It seems like when I see him or talk to him, is when I have my worse days. Any advice I will appreciate.