Hey, if I came off sounding judgemental earlier, I apologize. I'm not where you are at... at least now, anyway. I was once in your shoes, and even as an LD person at my darkest hour, I remember CRAVING the attention of someone who seemed to think I was a really neat person. So I promise to think a little more before I whip of a return post. Although, like Johanna said, I think if you cave right now, tempting though it may be, you are going to destroy any chance you have at fixing your marriage.
Why was I so cold to my H. Let me think about this one, write out some thoughts, and then condense so I don't write a book here trying to explain. I'll get back to you later today about this one.
And, I think your wife probably cares very much where you stay... but she's first and foremost angry and hurt that you left, so I'm sure that is precluding her 'excitment' over your new pad, you know? I'm sure she'd just rather you come home... talking about your own place is probably pretty scary for her... and since it's scary, she'll avoid it.
