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Typically I am gentle, kind, patient, giving - do I need to NOT be those things?

Jen, you are who you are. Don't lose yourself in all this. Continue to live your life while doing no harm.

~ swl

Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}