Because in your earlier posts it seemed to me your wife wanted you to pursue her. Now, it makes me realize something in my situation. I have a 'buddy' who would do the same thing to me. Text messages like, "do you miss me," "what are you doing," what are you doing tonight?" The odd phone calls. what the heck i tought. It made no sense at the time to naive steve. I come to find out her husband was out of town. she was looking for attention. she was pursuing to be pursued. I dont have a window into your or your wifes life; just realization about mine.
