She (I can't call her my wife anymore) called me up and asked said my 3 year old wanted to talk to me. She put him on and he asked if the 4 of us could go miniature golfing sometime.
My initial reaction was that she was trying to make me the bad guy of saying no. I didn't want to take the bait, as much as I would have loved to say no, but I told him that I would if that's what he wanted. He started chanting "I want to, I want to, I want to" over and over again. I said ok then.
He let out a "Yeah!" and heard him saying "Daddy said yes".
She got on the phone and said "Hello". I just said "Goodbye" and hung up.
This is craziness. I know some may say this is her way of reaching out but I don't buy it. I don't want to see her let alone spend time with her playing golf when I could be enjoying myself with my boys. I believe that he asked her (like he has many times in the past) and rather than saying no, she tries to make me the bad guy (like usual).
This is pure and utter crap. I really thought I would get through the day without any contact from her......
I'm hoping he won't remember this weekend.....
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