Originally Posted By: davidswife
Originally Posted By: confusedinpa


I know it may sound horrible but I have stopped not just praying for wife to return home as well as stopped praying for my wife period.


With my ex, at the point where his actions were so hurtful to myself and my children, I said something about praying for him, and my pastor said: "Until you're ready to pray for him again, I'll find someone else to pray specifically for him and his well being." And she did, and it helped me not feel so bad.

I know how much you're hurting, all I can promise you, is it well end. You will start to feel better, but it takes time.

Stacy


Stacy,

That is a great idea. I think I will do that so I can be at a better peace at not praying for her. There has been a support group at church I had talked to a while back. Maybe I'll ask them.

Thanks for the suggestion!


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13