I posted on FB, I sent stbxH a 6 page letter describing of everything. My side of it with the new info I now have. Not a mean letter. On the contrary. Telling him how we will get thru this for our kids and how we have to make peace and learn to deal with each other.
It was killing him softly with elegance, grace and forgiveness (I said I cant forgive him now but since I need to do that to be happy I will do it for myself eventually) K