Positive developments? #2

[MichelleLT]

You are right on! She is trying to keep up appearances.

She wants you to think she's hanging out with all these friends and doing the things she said she was going to do. Instead, she is sick with migraines a lot.

Not really ideal for either of you.

I TOTALLY agree she can't tell you who to talk to. The issue is how to address that w/o an argument. Which may not be possible.

The key for coming back is to make sure that the next few interactions are positive!

Every R has it's arguments, whether friends/lovers/family, even co-workers.

Just remember: it's not about how far you fall, the important thing is how high you bounce! (I forget who said that but it's one of my favorite quotes, mostly cuz of the amusing visual I get)