Yes, I will have to work on the phrasing. Maybe more like "I realize you've come to depend on me over the past 4 yrs, but will not always be available like I was".
As far as GAL activities...I've been bike riding on a regular basis, reading books (something I never did), I went to the movies by myself last week for the first time (a little uncomfortable, but it was fine...saw the funniest movie I've seen in years), reconnecting with friends. I'm even thinking of taking a cooking class since I love to cook.
Next week I will be painting my D's room and will be busy in the months to come getting the house ready to sell after the 1st of the year.
I'm not sitting around waiting for something to happen.
Last edited by billclay18; 08/25/0909:24 PM.
Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage) W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage) M4 Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D W moved out 8/29/09 I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done