Orich, we've all been there but you are just testing her and she knows it. Eventually, you'll stop and I hope it is before you decide that you hate her when really, you know exactly what you're doing.

If I have declared that my favorite cheese is mozzarella and you keep trying to convince me it is brie, I'll fight you to the death. If you sneak me a little brie here and there, hmmm...I might just take a liking and eventually concede that it is better.

Sorry for my metaphor but I hope it makes the point...