Originally Posted By: aliveandkicking
Why single moms? Huh? Why don't you plan playdates with whoever your kids are friends with...


Hello alive,

I just thought about this and I'm not sure I feel comfortable around couples anymore. Did anyone have trouble with this initially? Why moms? Because I don't know any single dads yet.

And sorry about the guy with needs comment, it's just hard to ward off the advances when they occur. My IC made me realize that it is because I don't want to let her go, but that is exactly what I need to do. Its the exact thing that everyone here has been telling me. It is really just very hard to be disciplined and stick to it when W turns on and off like a light switch.


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1