Okay, so we are one month away from W's move-out day. I was gone last week at a conference and then took my daughters to Disney for a few days. Early in the week I called W and she seemed elated that I called her and even texted me after the call to say thanks for the call. So later in the week I called again and left a voicemail. Never heard back from her.

Had I been a good DB'er I would have left it alone, but I couldn't resist asking her why she completely ignored the call when she seemed so happy to hear from me earlier in the week. Bad move and I should know better. Her response was that "She was sorry she said anything earlier in the week and that she was even more sorry that I misinterpreted it".

So with one month to go, I get a feeling that things will probably get worse as we get closer to the move out date, because she has already made reference that she resents being the one who is having to leave. I would welcome anyone's observations as to how things went for them prior to the move-out of the WAS and advice on how to handle the upcoming increased tension. Thanks.

S4H