My sitch...long but please indulge me

[billclay18]

Yep...I already see that coming. Not exactly sure how to handle it. Should I be "unavailable" which could be perceived as avoidance or being angry/bitter...or just straight forward, "under the circumstances I cannot allow you to depend on me like a H as you always have" or something to that affect. It has to be me telling her what is acceptable to me and not me asking her to stop depending on me.

I guess I'll worry about it if and when it happens.