I am COUNTING on him coming back...have said so from the start. Probably have made some mistakes along the way, but hanging in there. Hey, do you all still wear your wedding rings as you wait this out? I initially took mine off, but now I put them back on again. NOT planning on them coming off anytime soon although h's is off and he sees himself as single...

He did say yesterday to go ahead and 'protect myself.' I don't know why he said that? Can't believe anything he says and I'm watching his actions closely....

I wish I had more ambition to get out and do things. I've always been such a homebody and so was he. frown


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B