Thank you for that well thought out response...

But, crap, you were supposed to come through w/a witty, welcoming approach to this? DONTCHA KNOW THAT WAS YER JOB?

With that said, I like what you said, with a tweak.

#1 - I'd really like to f'n know if this is truly an issue of his w/me, an issue of his w/someone else (have to leave that option open), an issue w/his plumbing, etc... I may never really know. But, sh*t, if it's plumbing, GOOD LORD, how about a freakin' pill? He was always a bit "shy" about intimate stuff, though. I'm not sure he'd find the voice to admit it.

#2 - The self confidence will come back as I peel off this weight (still, determined now...). I think I'll do a few shots of courage, and pull a Thinker (in some way) - THINKER - if you read this, I offer you the utmost respect. Well handled... wish you could guide me! smile

What's that crazy saying? An awkward morning beats a lonely night? I NEED TO CARRY ON W/MY DAY! Who cares about an awkward mornin'!

Deep for a blonde, eh? LOL


Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.