Also, I would implore you to put a good strong transparency plan in place, as the recidivism rate on these things is very high. This does not have to be forever; just until you can begin feeling safe again in the marriage.
Couldnt agree more with Puppy. My "checking" took a while but what I found sure did open my eyes...
Congrats on the breakthrough!!! Wishing you luck and strength. K
