Hey all. I was an active member back in May-Dec '08. Was going through my second D at the time. First M ended due to her cheating, and second M due to a lot of doubt, saying I don't love you anymore etc on her part.
Anyway, my D is over as of Feb, and I haven't talked to her since April. She had expressed the want to be friends, but I quickly realized her version of friends was much different than mine when she just had to tell me about her new partner and how the first time they had sex it was all night, etc. I couldn't take it anymore after that, and to this day, part of me still thinks that was her getting revenge (for what, I don't know)
I have effectively moved on with my life and have been dating quite a bit for a while now. Here is the thing....I've grown to figure out that being alone, or being single is OK, but I still think about her all the time. I have not gone to therapy for quite a while, but the reason I stopped in the first place was because I felt it wasn't getting anwywhere. So....how do you deal with recurring thoughts of your ex? I have "gotten over" her, but still think about her constantly.
