I know this is her thing and I've suspected for a while that she is conflicted because if she truly loved me she wouldn't have had an A so how could she do that when she really loves me? It's why I've wanted her to read books or come on sites like this one and learn how it can happen, but she won't do that.
And I know she needs to unload on someone and if it's not me, she's got a build in friend that would be great for her to unload to. That friend had an A a number of years ago and W was her confidant during it. Her and her H reconciled and are happier than ever so if anyone knows what W is going through and could help her, it's this friend. But she won't open up to her either.
Oh well. Things still are really good. Been flirting up a storm on IM today and we've got a night away planned this weekend that we're both looking forward to so I'm not going to complain.....much..
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
