Well, even after all that has happened, after almost 7 months of seperation, I still find there are some nights where I don't sleep so well. Hopefully, with the boundries I've set about her not contacting me, things will get better for me shortly.
I have to go to the courthouse today to get the divorce paperwork. Hopefully, she will agree to everything so we don't have to do a contested divorce.
John, as you know from the military, it doesn't always have to be FORCE, it can be the CREDIBLE THREAT of force that works just as well. Just knowing what you COULD get from her, and knowing THAT YOU KNOW this could be enough. I suspect, however, that she won't find your threat credible because you've taken so long to really do anything, and you'll have to follow thru with a contested action.
