I appreciate and thank every one of you for the advice...I listen to my heart and my gut and I am trying my best to no longer act out of fear or emotion. What is done is done and I just need to breathe and take it one day at a time.
My job is going great....very supportive people and great kiddos. That will be a blessing for me this year as I go thru things. My h has to figure things out and come out of the confusion, give up the OW, etc...He talks about work, work, work as he owns his own company. I want more balance..someone to play with me! Can we balance that? More soul searching...
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10