Kevin...thank you for stopping by my thread and I appreciate your concern. There is no more anger on my part Kevin. I am the brunt of it. It is difficult for you to understand what is going on here without going back to the beginning and reading the entire history.
Over the last week Kevin:
a friend of mine passed away and my STBXW never told me
she stole the wake card I brought home
while putting my son to sleep after not seeing him for over a day and talking to him about his day, she walked into the room and insisted that I get out, making a scene in front of him even this late in our D
she keeps the children away from me as late as possible to minimize my time with them
she recently threw out a plant that a friend bought me as a gift
if the garbage is full while I am at work, she dumps the bag on the garage floor instead of putting in the can
Kevin...I shouldn't even be listing this.
No Kevin....I have no anger towards my STBXW nor do I show her anger. However, it is dished out to me constantly. Whether I am kind to her...text her to keep her informed..or try and offer her time with the kids instead of having my sister watch them....I am penalized, punished, motioned against, etc.
You are only a year into this Kevin, so, it probably behooves you to keep going and try. I am not sure if there has been infidelity involved in your sitch, but, since you are separated, I HIGHLY recommend that you read the the link I left on the other site. Women who are separated USUALLY do so to be with another man. Just be aware
Thanks for your concern and your input. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
