he was back, i think

[mdoodles]

so h has a job, finally. or finally admitting to it.

get this - he tells son sunday night he has this job, gives some details. son tells me, the details seemed made up so i thought son was telling me a story or something (since son always thinks daddy is at work, why would i think now he is really at work)...anyway, waited outside for h yesterday to pick son up. never came. we called and called and called.

i sent a text. no answer. he finally answered the phone and said, oh, im not coming im working. i was like, dont u think u should tell me something like that?

he said, i told son. i was like, he is 5, u dont make a schedule with him, u go through me. we are waiting outside for u.

he was like, im working. and hung up.

so son was crying, i felt so bad for him, not to mention he was sick...

i was so angry. i make my appts and plans for the few hours that he actually comes. my dad ended up coming to watch son for an hour so i could get my things done.

i called my lawyer, told him to call h's lawyer and tell him we know about the job and im looking for my health insurance (and money).

i sent an email to h (i like to put things in writing) saying u cannot communicate your schedule through our child. i copied my lawyer.

went to my lawyer today to drop off all of my paperwork that documents everything over the past year. so many papers, i couldnt even fax them.

he really has alot of nerve but atleast im not upset about him anymore. just upset with how he behaves with our son.