Journal: D's first day at kinder was a brilliant success. I called h so that he could talk to d about day and she invited him to dinner (something I had already mentioned to him at @Stronger's suggestion). He told me "ok, I'll drop by for a margarita". We went to our neighborhood restaurant and he actually stayed for about 1 1/2 hours. We chatted and laughed and I noticed that at one point (while I was holding younger D) he reached over to her and then touched my arm and lingered a bit. At any rate, things got a little uneasy when we discussed next month's finances (I told him he needed to start paying his own car insurance and half of ds' medical insurance). The only really weird moment was when we were discussing dreams and I brought up that I had dreamt that I had not seen him for a while and was 9 months pregnant (well, h has had a vasec. so I guess that implied it wasn't his???) Oh, well. Overall, nice evening. He really is a pretty good friend... I guess if this goes south, we could at least be friendly to each other. I know he cannot afford to continue the lifestyle that he has chosen so now I am wondering if money will become an issue between us.
HIW M 35 H 37 D 5, D 2 Married 1996 Dating 1992 Met 1988 EA/PA started March 2009 Bomb 6/16/2009 Separated 6/23/2009
