Oh, one other thing I could use some feedback about. Last week, he was talking about going to a reunion pre-party at a bar for the 20 year reunion for the class before his. He's talking about going with a male friend of his. I think it's likely that the OW could show up there since she is trying to reconnect with old friends. I know he hasn't talked to her, but I am worried but him running in to her. When he brought it up last week, I told him I was really uncomfortable with it and maybe we could go together. Since it's a reunion, I think most people will bring spouses. He was noncommittal, didn't think others would bring spouses. We let it drop and haven't discussed it since, but it's this Friday and I would like to have a response ready if he brings it up. I think we are too fragile to risk seeing her right now.
Thoughts?
Me 34 H 37 Kids 7 & 4 Married 12yrs, together 17 Kiss/EA lasted 2 weeks. NC since 8/7
