I fully agree with Kerry. Going out with someone who is well aware of your M status is not wrong. Taking that R to another level though would be wrong, of course. BBJ knows herself well though and IMO is strong enough to maintain her boundaries now.
BBJ, I'm glad to see that Dan at least thought to make sure you got a present from your children for your birthday. That is pretty rare. My xh couldn't be bothered to make sure our son even said happy birthday or happy mother's day this year. It truly is a gift that he gave you - the diligence to make sure that your children acknowledge you as the great mother you are!!!
Have a great day!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!