I'm not agreeing to anything yet. I told him to write up what he wants and I'll hand it to my lawyer. I felt the peace that it was dead. THat's exactly it. What happens next who knows. I guess I'm panicking today. I'm scared if I give him anything he wants legally, I"m screwing myself later. If It don't, he wont work in therapy and I'm getting divorced anyhow. I'm really afraid today not knowing what to do. Where was that peace again? lol