Wife called again this morning. I ignored that one too until I was ready to call back. Turns out she is stressing about D7 not keeping up with her work in second grade. She went on and on about how D7 was in second grade now and she had to do more work and do her home work, etc. I let her talk and I said, "I am not going to state the obvious here but D7 has alot of things on her mind that she did not have on her mind last year." Then wife says that D7 mentioned the divorce last night during her tantrum and my wife said that "other kids in her class have problems too but that doesnt mean that she gets a free pass." I was getting kinda mad at this point but I held my tounge. I told her that I would leave work early and talk to her teacher about his agenda for class. Then I told her that D7 and I would find a place in the school to do her homework.


I plan on giving my wife my copy of the five love languages because I think it will help her with D7 IF she actually reads it. So originally my wife wanted me to see our kids every other weekend with one visit during the week. Now I pull back and leave her with the kids a FEW TIMES and she is already wanting me to take up the slack for her. Oh yeah, she has a hair appointment tonight while I am taking care of business with our kids. When she gets home I will fill her in with what went on at school then Iam out of there.


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final