She also lied point blank to me regarding respecting my request to never contact the OM for anything other than work in our home or around the family. I have proof that she did, but she looked me straight in the eye and said she has never done it since the time I asked her not to.
If your child, co-worker, subordinate, boss, friend, etc. lied to you, how would you react when you have proof? "We both know that's not true. I have decided that next time you cross that boundary I am going to demand that you ___________." Her behavior needs to be handled like a adult. I know how hard it is but it is healthy, necessary and loving. There is a theological idea called - righteous anger.
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so we keep teetering on the fence.
She will keep you there as long as you let her.
All this stress gives her more reasons to lean on the OM. Be very aware, strong and loving.
You can handle it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
