Thanks for all the resoponses Iv'e been getting! I can see that there are many people having the same problem I am.

My H and I have been doing alot of talking and he has been showing me some affection that I hadn't had in quite a while. Then you wonder if it's because he wants to or was it just because you complained about it.
Whatever the reason, it worked! I completely left him alone about the sex thing and was only working with him on the affection but Friday night after going to bed early, he woke me up about 1:00 am and made love to me for the first time in 3 months!

Who knows how long it will be again before that happens, but for now I'm happy!

I know I just got into this group, but I have been dealing with this problem for several years now. I really think your words of advice have helped me and I pray for each of you that your problems will get better.

Don't get me wrong, I'm on cloud 9 right now, but I know in a couple weeks I'll be telling you all about how it's happing again, because that seems to be what happens with us. It's really hard to tell how long it will be until next time. But thanks again for being there for me

kabelle