ACJ, excellent advice. I think he has heard that he is "safe" with me if he decides to "visit" his mom so I don't need to bring it up again, unless he does.

I am still working up how and what I am going to say to the two older ones. I have been fortunate to see them most every night but it isn't the same.

Thank you.

Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God