The Retro session will be either the weekend of Oct 2 or Oct 16. This gives me plenty of time to live my changes/attitudes. Sandi mentioned this "in-between" time is a good thing...my friend here at work says it's a blessing.

No more with the R discussions is correct. My friend says "to fast and pray during this time". She looked at my waistline and then said "fast with you tongue and pray." She said the same as you, stop talking and start doing. I got a laugh out of it.

It's weird, I feel very detached from my W today versus yesterday. It's the fact we have kids that makes detachment temporary.

And finally, today is my son's first day of kindergarten. My W made a big deal out of it...great breakfast...plenty of photos...nice clothing...etc. I sent her a text message this morning saying "I just wanted to say you did a marvelous job making our son's first day of school a very special one." It make come across as pursuing, but it came from the bottom of my heart...I really meant it.

You have words of wisdom my friend.
-LFH

ME: 38
W: 35
D2.5 and S5
Married 12 years
Separated (same house, different rooms)
INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009
The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009