She usually turns you down but you have concluded that she is happy with the increased contact, how do you figure?
Just trying to understand.
I think she really appreciates the help with kids and life. She is overwhelmed. I'm just trying to be there for her as a friend. She has been there for me many times in the past. I want to be there for her and have her understand that there are no strings attached. Sure, I hope that someday she trusts me again and we reconnect but that has to be a later step I think.
She could be totally using me right now but thats a chance I'm comfortable taking and besides I put her through living heck over the last year so I couldn't really feel too slighted about it.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09